Pants-to-Church Sunday left me a bit bruised. But those days may be gone. She is going to dump you. I am particularly tied to an area because of family and friends and he was set on selecting a list that was best suited for his career, not me. She started crying when I explained this to her. I know my husband appreciates me looking into it because he knows I am doing it to gain an understanding into the culture he was raised in. If you can put yourself in his shoes, you would understand that, first of all, he is barraged by hungry patients all wanting answers and a piece of him. He is still in residency. The independent work is just as important as the work we do as a couple. I have searched for a blog, or some support group for men struggling to figure out how to survive being married to a female physician, especially of an extremely demanding subspecialty.
We still have great sex 3 or 4 times a week and, no, he doesn't use Viagra, Ciasis, etc. If it is already an issue in your relationship, then it'll amplify to an extreme if you get married. In the end people have to make their own decisions. I've decided not to mention the CES letter or anything that could be considered "anti-mormon. Girls aren't socially required to be missionaries, unlike men.